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First, thank you so much to everybody who's sent hugs and sympathy about Chase. Just knowing that y'all are there and that you care (and that some of you had a chance to meet my fuzzy boy) really does help.

On a somewhat lighter note, I've been fascinated by the behavior of my cats since I got home from the vet last night. When I first came home, none of them would come near me... I think I was radiating more stress than they could figure out how to deal with. Then, all of a sudden, I realized I was petting a purring cat curled up by my left leg. I never felt him get on the sofa, and Smudgie's a big boy, but there he was... just hanging out and purring. Over the course of the night, I had an ever-changing procession of cats in that one spot. I frequently didn't realize they'd changed until I looked down and realized "Hey, that's not the fur I was petting a few minutes ago!"

Then I started noticing another piece of the pattern. Each time I got a "new" cat to pet, the previous one would go engage in a vigorous game of hide-and-seek or pounce-and-tussle with one of the other cats. In some cases, cats who generally consider themselves too "old and dignified" to play (looks at Errie) were suddenly hiding around corners and leaping up in the air and pouncing on furry passers-by.

It's almost like each cat would curl up with me 'til they'd soaked up all the grief and stress they could handle, then they'd go off and discharge it with a rousing bit of silliness with one of the other cats... like zapping them with a static charge... while another cat moved in to take their place by me.

It was very cute... and more than slightly odd. But, well, they're cats and "odd" is kinda in their job description.

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Date: 2008-03-06 05:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] starmalachite.livejournal.com
I just read yesterday's & today's flist. I'm so sorry about Chase. No one could have done better by him than you did.

Your cats' stress-relieving behavior sounds familiar. I was widowed in 1994, and the 3 cats in the household at the time did pretty much the same routine for a while. (One of them is still with me, 18 & a little senile but going strong.)

You've made it clear Chase was a special dog. I'm sure he thought you were special too. *hugs*

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Date: 2008-03-06 05:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quadrivium.livejournal.com
*hugs* Chase was a sweetie, and I am very glad I got to meet him.

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Date: 2008-03-07 02:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] min0taur.livejournal.com
Sounds like you're very well tuned in to how the bonds between humans and cats are distinct from those between humans and dogs -- each precious in its own way, each played out a little differently -- and in the case of your household, part of one system. You must be doing something right, big time.

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Date: 2008-03-08 01:40 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I've been offline for a while and just read about Mr Chase. I'm very sorry for your loss, but you know he had a great life.
Sherri